They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT, but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
This is true even if you are best friends and you know him and feel close to him.
This is the worst way to start Asking him about how he feels, the awkward “do you like me” question, is a big no-no too, for the same reasons.
He used to text and call me all the time, but suddenly he stopped.– Why do I always end up with the losers? Unfortunately, the answer to the last question is yes. You break down the toughest guy’s walls, make him beg for you to be with him forever, make him bend over backwards to please you – without playing games. It hasn’t changed in the last million years and it never will (even if they won’t admit it! Telling him you like him/in love with him FIRST, eliminates the chase – a big turn off for guys.
Plus, what happens if he doesn’t feel the same YET?
They don’t want to be your mother to approve everything you do.
When you do these things, you send a clear message:"I don't think you'll like me for who I am, so I'm going to try to buy your attention and affection". And one thing that turns an attractive women off and sends her running away faster than just about anything is a guy who starts saying "You know, I really, REALLY like you" after one or two dates. Have you ever noticed that you see a lot more average and unattractive men with beautiful women than the other way around? Women are more attracted to certain qualities in men, and they're attracted to the way a man makes them FEEL than they are to looks alone. And ANY guy can learn how, MISTAKE #7: Thinking That It Takes Money And Looks One of the most common mistakes that guys make is giving up before they've even gotten started, because they think that attractive women are only interested in men who have looks and money, or guys who are a certain height, or guys who are a certain age.
Avoid the same mistakes and better your chances of finding a partner online!
Most men make the same mistakes when they fail to conquer a woman.
This mistake is yet again based on the fact that guys need the chase.
Do not blow up his phone with calls and texts, no matter how cute they are. Sleeping with him too soon is still one of the worst dating mistakes women make – of all time. Even if it was perfect, even if you felt a connection, even if you cuddled until morning and he made you breakfast in bed.